Three Little Words

As many of you know, we just had our 2 year old grandson stay with us last week. Just the three of us. It was great! We had so much fun just enjoying life with him. He’s talking quite well but there were a few things that we couldn’t understand. However, that didn’t stop us in our adventures.

Periodically, throughout the day, Dave or I would pick Sam up and give him hugs, kisses and tickle time, better known as “baby getter” time. He would love and squeal and we would always say I love you, Sam and then put him down and off he’d go.

He has learned to say I love you and when we asked, “can you tell Pappy I love you” or “can you tell Besta I love you”, he would and it would make us smile. But more than that were the times when we would tell him I love you and without coaxing he would say I love you. Melted our hearts right down into our socks!

And I can specifically remember a special time when I heard each of our children say “Mamma, I love you”.

Oh, they’ve said many, many times but I remember particularly endearing times as if they happened just yesterday and it makes me smile and brings a tear to my eyes. It still brings me to tears my eyes when they call just to say they love me because I miss them when I don’t get to see them that often.

You know, I’m sure God feels the same. He misses us when we’re not there to talk with Him – His love for us is so great!

“The Lord hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee.” Jeremiah 31:3 KJV

It is God’s love, that everlasting love, that draws us to Him. People weren’t drawn to Jesus because He was tyrannical or dictatorial. It was His love – it was the compassion He showed to people in everyday ways. It was His expressions of kindness and giving that made people want to be around Him. He was acting like his Father.

The Apostle John wrote that because God loved the world He sent His Son so that anyone who believed on Him wouldn’t perish but receive life eternal. The Father loved us and gave and Jesus loved us and died.

“God our Father loves us. He is kind and has given us eternal comfort and a wonderful hope. We pray that our Lord Jesus Christ and God our Father 17 will encourage you and help you always to do and say the right thing.” II Thessalonians 2:16-17 CEV

I know God still remembers the first time I told Him “I love you” and since His memory is so much greater than mine, He remembers every time after too. I also know that if my heart swells with emotion when I hear my kids say I love you, His heart response is greater than mine.

Be thankful today for His love. Take time to tell Him today how much you love Him. It’ll make His day.

Attitude of Gratitude

About 5 years ago I focused on giving thanks for the weeks leading up to Thanksgiving. It’s very important that we have a right heart in the things we do each day. So for the next 6 to 7 weeks I will be centering in on our ability to give thanks.

I encourage you to start now. Make a list of people and opportunities you are thankful for. Not just a mental list but a down-on-paper list! Then stop by the store and pick up a box of thank you notes and send them off to those names you have on your list. Tell them how they have affected your life and how grateful you are for them.

Yes, you might do this from time to time on FB, through a text or email but it will mean a whole lot more when they realize you took the time to get the card, write the note and put it in the mail. Time = love!

It might be old fashioned but gratitude never goes out of style.

We can never be too thankful. A lot of folks these days have forgotten how to say “thank you” or to properly appreciate the things that are done for them.

We tend to take so many things for granted or worse yet feel that “well I deserve it”. Nothing could be farther from the truth – if we all got what we deserved we would go straight to hell – do not pass go, do not collect $200. We might be better than someone else but when compared to God’s standard we have all failed and are deserving of death but He gives us grace freely.

So today take on an attitude of gratitude and look for a way to tell someone thank you – maybe it’s your kids just because they hold your heart, or your husband, thank him for going to work everyday and then coming home, or your wife – have you thanked her for all the things she does each day that no one seems to notice(but have the smelling salts ready, she may faint).

I use a phrase constantly in expressing gratitude and the thing is, I really mean it. I will say, “Thank you, I really appreciate that” and sometimes I hear, “sure you do” but you know I do! I want people to know they are truly appreciated.

“In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. ”
1 Thessalonians 5:18

You don’t have to be thankful “for” everything but “in” everything. Thanksgiving is the will of God for our lives!